磊子看着和露丝两人完全没啥CP感，肉眼看着就吃不到一个锅里的类型，丧葬风服饰，套模版的剧情，就咱国产剧能给编剧点钱上个学吗？就好歹的得地和词句用对吧……

Absent father and traumatized honey boy. All he wanted was love, but pain was all he got. The pain you got equals the pain you endure walking out from it. Stella performances. Conflicts between characters were powerful and engaging, the film could end in a better way tho. Some nice night shots there. Also, FKA Twigs was so beautiful in it!

可以说是我看过最乏味的美食纪录片了，一帕金森颤抖高清摄像机对着一帮逼逼叨叨给自己脸上贴金的人。毫无知识点和可看性。

整部电影的基调很不喜欢：需要去军队来成为一个“完整”的人。尤其是最后，主角母亲不接受他的性向但军队接受了… 虽然细节上展现了国家机器和个人之间的张力，但总体还是有点imperialism。但是一星给导演映后说的那句：military is where those who experience the failure of the American dreams are pushed to. 有这句话这部电影可供思考的空间就大了很多了。

背叛这种事情，有第一次就自然会有第二次~老子还以为这货是尼玛温情片，擦，结果也真尼玛现实~